Sooo. I was always at a healthy weight for most of my life until my sophomore year of high school. In connection with an unhealthy diet, coupled with an inactive lifestyle due to my chronic pain, I started gaining weight. Now I was already unhappy and isolated because of my chronic pain. But after I gained weight I remember being totally uncomfortable in my body. It felt to foreign to me and I remember feeling so self-conscious surrounded by all the other skinny high schoolers. I felt obese, when in reality I was only 10 or so pounds over my set weight. Here is a picture from this time.
This continued over the summer and into the beginning of my Junior year of high school. Here is a picture from a Thanksgiving trip to Texas. Around this time my chronic headache situation was totally out of control and I was feeling helpless. My weight still bothered me and I was determined to do something.
For Lent the spring of my Junior year I gave up inbetween meal snacks. This slight lifestyle change brought quick results and by the end of Lent I had lost about the 10 extra pounds. Happy with these results and still unhappy with my body I continued to eat healthy and started exercising, riding my bike a lot. This picture is from the beginning of the summer before my senior year of high school. I would say that around this time I was definitely involved in disordered eating and on the brink of an eating disorder.
The fall semester of my Senior year was a quick descent into an eating disorder, specifically anorexia nervosa. I restricted more and more to the point where I was eating no breakfast, a 150 calorie lunch (mini bagel and sugarfree applesauce), and a dinner of around 300 calories with my family. I was afraid of any food that wasn’t one of my “regular safe foods” and never ate fat, desserts, chips, or any other fear foods. I thought that I was in control of my life though I still was unhappy with my body. In the following picture I distinctly remember how fat I felt at our family Christmas picture and how I thought that everyone was staring at my gross rolls and muffin top. When In actuality I was about 15 lbs underweight and the only thing my family was staring at were my protruding bones.
This descent into anorexia continued and overshadowed my entire senior year of high school. Each day was a battle, I would hide out in the library or chapel during lunch so that I wouldn’t have to make excuses about my now non-existent lunch or shrinking body. I was lieing and throwing out food, things I would normally never do, but I wasn’t really me anymore. My eyes were vacant and I barely have any pictures from the late spring of my senior year. here is one from march, but I didn’t get down to my lowest weight until late May. But I have no pictures from that time.
This next picture is from the end of the summer before I went to college. I had gained back some of the weight over the summer under the threat of postponing college and was beginning to reach health again. I haven’t been at this weight since that time.
I continued to gain back the weight, though in an unhealthy manner unfortunately. I spent my freshman year of college restricting and then bingeing. The bingeing would come on suddenly, I would steal friends and roommates foods, eat vending machine food, anything. The binges were uncontrollable.
My sophomore year of college marks another peak in weight, it was the closest I’d been to my high school high weight due to the bingeing and lack of exercise again. I had never really dealt with my eating disorder and had simply let it morph from anorexia to ED-NOS and now to bulimia. I started purging and going fasting following binges. My weight pretty much plateaued from my Junior year till the present. There have been gains and losses but never dramatic enough for people in my life to notice.
Today I’ve managed to remain at a healthy weight following graduating from college. I have started to lose a few pounds lately but I wouldn’t exactly call it a relapse yet. So, this is my eating disorder story in pictures. I’ve been through the gauntlet over the past 7 years, and I hope that the next 7 are closer to health and less disordered.